You may have heard several ideas or warnings about sex while pregnant, and chances are that most of these are simply myths. You may have heard these from a trusted resource or friend, and some of the ideas might make a lot of sense. However, a lot of people don’t really know about what they should and shouldn’t do with regards to sex while pregnant. Let me share some tips with you:
First of all pregnancy is not some sort of sickness; which means that pregnancy does not necessarily mean that sexual relationship should be suspended; but there are precautions.
The man should find a comfortable position and he should be gentle. It is important to understand that sex during pregnancy might need more time, and couples need to go slow. Being anxious or trying to reach climax in a hurry is surely going to be stressful and cause discomfort to you the expecting mother.
After delivery there must be abstinence from four to six months for you to heal completely. Basically, after you give birth, you are vulnerable to infection. Plus, your cervix needs time to close up again, and it typically takes about six weeks for that to happen. Having sex too early increases your chances of pain and infection External play instead can be recommended: cuddling, kissing with your partner for example. Just make sure to hold off on any activity until you’re fully healed.
The reason why couples face problems in their marriage is simply because of their sex life. Sex is an important part in the daily life of the couple that should not be neglected. Once you are grounded in the purpose of God, sex will help keep your link with your husband.
Koinonia is like a sexual relationship between a man and a woman. Our intimacy with God is higher than a sexual relationship. If we therefore need to communicate with God daily in fellowship, sex is another way of communication between husband and wife.
When you are a purpose-driven couple, purpose will stimulate your sexual life. When you look towards the same direction and you both are driven by the same goals, there will be stimulation in your sex life. When God ordained marriage, He gave them authority to have dominion on the earth. As a couple, to walk in this dominion mandate, you need to have a healthy sexual relationship. Lack of a sexual relationship with your spouse means you are not walking or sharing the same purpose.